In a healthy relationship the arguments are about how people feel and what should be done to correct it. In an unhealthy relationship arguments are about proving sides and earning points. Arguing over the transcript of the last fight is just people trying to verify their points.
This isn’t healthy.
(via Punfree @ reddit)
B efore debating/arguing/disagreeing with someone, make sure you can explain their point of view in such a way that they agree with your explanation.
T here is a voice that doesn’t use words. Listen. – Rumi