Love risks everything and asks for nothing – Rumi
In a healthy relationship the arguments are about how people feel and what should be done to correct it. In an unhealthy relationship arguments are about proving sides and earning points. Arguing over the transcript of the last fight is just people trying to verify their points.
This isn’t healthy.
(via Punfree @ reddit)
Forgiveness releases us from the burden of judgment. As human beings, we are not equipped to judge, and to do so can cause great harm to ourselves and to others.